I went on a hike on Sunday by myself, just me and a little Kanye West (don't judge). It had been an incredibly busy week not only with work, but my head had been spinning out of control for most of it. I have lived in this town for a relatively short time, next month I will have lived in Los Angeles for 5 years. Don't get me wrong I love it here. It's very different from South Florida where I grew up. Everything is FLAT in Florida. Sunday was one of those days where I really got to appreciate the beauty of this city. When I made it to the top, you could see for miles and miles. The snows capped mountains far behind the Griffith Observatory, The amazing skyline of Downtown and hills with the multimillion-dollar homes all under the famous HOLLYWOOD sign. I love it here and can't imagine wanting to live anywhere else...BUT
This town is full of crazy people, myself included. I have always considered myself "a bit touched" as the Late Dixie Carter would say. The difference is I am aware of it and it's part of my charm :) I have recently been doing a lot of networking for the TLASC. I love going out and meeting people and seeing how I could help someone or someone could help me. I always try to see the good in people and understand who they are but it's not easy in this town. I updated Facebook last week that" I feel like I am on an Episode of V, and I am the only Human in the Mother ship. I don't know what it is; some people in LA act like emotionless zombies. I don't know if they are really focused, have attitude because of insecurities or they just don't give a shit. I have always come from a place of being nice and I always try to engage people by giving a smile. It seems to freak people out. Sometimes a smile is just a smile and nothing else. I find once you chip away at that shield people seem to put up. They turn out to be great people but there are just so many people that seem really “effected." You can have dinner with them one night and then you see them at the gym a week later and they act like they don't know you. WHAT IS THAT?
This behavior baffles me. I have a core group of friends that I love and an inner circle of friends that I really love also. I am very lucky. Like I said I am new to this town and I would eventually like to get to know everyone. I just wish the friggin walls would come down around some of these people. I do believe in my heart that there are a lot of great people out there and probably a lot of real jerks as well. I just wish I could tell who is who.
Lets just stop the cycle now. If someone says "hi" to you at the gym, coffee, club..wherever you are, say "hi" back. Shoot them a smile. It takes such work to give attitude, and a smile looks better on everyone’s face. You never know, you could have just met your future husband, best friend or business partner.
Give it a shot! What's the worst thing that could happen?!!